• Dr. Willard Ashley, Sr.

Why You Should Talk To Therapist?

Feeling overwhelmed and burnt out is common in today’s world. While you may have adapted a coping mechanism such as seeking comfort from a loved one, everyone can use some extra help to handle life’s challenges.


One way is to seek professional help.


Research has proven that speaking out your feelings has profound therapeutic effects on you. In other words, getting your problems out in the open, especially to a professional, is good for your overall well-being.


What happens when you seek out a therapist?


Talk therapy allows you to discuss concerns ranging from stress management, relationship issues, depression, and anxiety disorders.


Here are the key benefits of talk therapy with a caring and qualified person.


Effects are long term


One of the hugest benefits of talk therapy is that the effects are long-lasting. This is because the therapy process gets internalized, and self-therapy takes over once the actual therapy is over. You develop the necessary tools to help you cope with future issues, and the positive benefits continue to grow over time even after the therapy ends.


Explore hidden desires


Therapy releases you from the wrapped, single way of living life and broadens your awareness to life. It can help you explore healthy self-expression in ways that you couldn’t before. In simpler times, therapy enables you to explore the things you yearn for, get past the fears to create a more satisfying and fulfilling life.


For instance, if you desire intimacy but refrain from getting into relationships because of fear of rejection or shame, therapy can help you explore and overcome this fear. In the end, you will find it easier to satisfy the hidden desire and connect relationships with others.


It helps you find a purpose


When you talk to a therapist, it is crucial that you completely open up to what you are dealing with and where you would like to go. This allows you to work towards a goal, giving you peace of mind, confidence, and meaningful life.


This particularly works for people who have lost purpose in life and seek more meaning in their lives. A therapist will help you clarify your purpose, especially when you are feeling the lowest in life.


Feel less alone with your problems


Few people can always share what they are going through with other people because of fear of judgment. Opening up to a stranger, someone who won’t judge you, can give you the confidence and freedom to talk about things you would never tell those close to you.


Hence, knowing that you have a built-in support system to go to helps alleviate the burden.


Maintain relationship


A research review suggests that couples therapy is an effective treatment for couples going through individual and relational problems.


Couples therapy can help a couple:

  • Improve their communication skills

  • Restore lost trust

  • Resolve conflict

  • Restore intimacy

  • Form a firmer bond


Rewire your brain


Therapy can bring change in the level of your brain.


Psychotherapy has been proven to help people identify constant negative thoughts and replace them with new and more positive thinking patterns. In addition to relieving stress and depression, therapy can bring immeasurable positive brain changes.


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